Am I “sex negative” it when my friend brings up sex in every single conversation with me if I don’t enjoy?

Am I “sex negative” it when my friend brings up sex in every single conversation with me if I don’t enjoy?
Recently I got back in touch online with a friend that is old i will be genuinely excited to be reconnecting with after a lot more than 10 years. I knew him whenever we had been both in our belated teenagers. He had been enjoyable to be around, but a mutual (male) buddy described him as “needy. ” I happened to be happy to listen to that this characteristic of their had not been simply in my own mind, and that he made this impression on males too. He’d in this manner of making you feel really bad once you stated no to him; it is perhaps not between you and him that he would pressure you, exactly, but his disappointment would become this entity that lived in the air. We don’t discover how else to explain it. Regardless of this quirk we had been buddys; he demonstrably had a thing for me personally, but he had been some of those dudes whom demonstrably had a thing for many of their feminine friends. (i ought to point out he was a lot more of a generic attention vacuum. Which he never utilized the frustration Monster to get intercourse; )

Through Facebook i am aware that he’s now freely poly and taking part in kink and sex that is tantric and therefore sex is vital to him.

And that’s great! [Read more…]